The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.

Romans 8:16

Regardless of how we become part of specific family, there are many factors that determine whether we struggle or thrive over time. A key factor, especially early on, is the level of attachment we develop with our parents.

Children need to learn that they are loved and valued and that they are safe. More importantly, they need to KNOW it in their very soul. Children who are insecurely attached end up struggling in other relationships.

A sense of attachment is developed from a multitude of large and small "rituals" or encounters. Everything from learning that a cry of fear or hunger will mean comfort and food is delivered, snuggles and bedtime stories or the simple delight of being watched while doing something. Even loving discipline is part of the mix. All of these things not only tell us that we are part of the family, it also shows us that we belong. This strengthens our heart and creates a foundation for a rich engagement with the world.

Note: No family is perfect. It is a common struggle for everytone to come to terms with the less than ideal parts of their early years. For many people, seeking out the support of a qualified counsellor can be extremely beneficial.

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